Absolutely. I just had that experience today!

When I asked H if D is what he wanted, he said "it's what's happened to us".

Yeah, because of HIS actions! Took absolutlely no responsibilty.

When I said that reason for D would be adultery, H said "That's what it is" as if it was nothing to be ashamed of. Amazing.


M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D