My thread is under newcommers,but thought I'd post hear w/ some questions. What are the OW withdrawal symptoms??
H shocked me by coming back unannouced(well maybe if I'd pick up the phone beforehand).
H had been talking about it for months. H number one complain about me is that he is drowning in bills & cant keep up w/ the house payments. So, I had been doign 180's even though I myself also high in debt in bills ,but was able to alleviate H of one big bill by putting it on my name & paying from now on.The day before he returned I told him if I had to sacrifice other credit card bills then so be it & I will help w/ the house for we cannot afford to lose it. H started w/ the negatives again of how I need to stop making promises I cant keep and IF he were to move back the girls(three 6,7 &10yrs) need to keep their rooms clean. But yesturday he was home w/ all his stuff everywhere. H seemed angry and I did not show exitement but stayed aloof. I mentioned that OW was prolly not going to let go so easily(very possesive & clingy),I needed to keep my mouth shut but I wanted to know what was going on! H said he didnt want to discuss it righ then.I knwo he had been complaining here & there that it the R wasnt what he thoguht it would be.
