I have been noticing that a lot of WAS speak as if the things that they were doing were somehow beyond their control. Valeria's h spoke of 'wanting to be stopped'; divorce is spoken of as if it is the logical conclusion of what is happening - not anything they could influence.
My h said to s2 that he 'finds it peculair that they don't have a relationship' - not that he is sad about it.
It is if they cannot take responsibility at any level for what they are doing - and then this translates into blaming everyone else.
Has anyone else noticed this very odd linguistic usage? Am I right in thinking it is symptomatic of a disordered state of mind?
