WOW The IVF is a biggie. Could this be part of the marriage problem? I also needed help to conceive many years ago. Whilst going through treatment the first time H walked out and did not come back for 8 monthes or so, So I can empathise with the urgency you are feeling for wanting the R back sooner rather than later and cutting out any games.
I don't think I ever truely forgave my H for that.
How old are you?
I wouldn't push him for a decision though ... I doubt you will get the one you want if you push him.
NC x
back later - I am stressed he is late bringing my son home. I have a horrible feeling he has taken him to meet OW!
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
