Has anyone found that actually filing and moving forward on the D helped the relationship? My W wants closure, but yet is going to counseling and seems to be getting better, but still want closure on this. With me not helping, not in the way, just not helping, it seems to be irritating her and making things worse. I guess in my imagination, if we don't file, we still have a chance, but the opposite would be that just because we do file, doesn't me we can't still work on it. So, if filing makes her relax and be able to focus on what resolving issues and perhaps moving towards forgiveness, then maybe I'm better off with the D and working from there.
Has anyone seen an improvement in the R after the D?
