I know time is our friend when we're doing all this. Doing the best for the children and each other.. but how long...
I have been LRTing and DBing since May with absolutely nothing to show for it (in terms of wife's response).
Am I down? Am I discouraged? NO!! In the process of DBing, I have put myself in a much better place emotionally and psychologically. I do not know what will become of my family, but one thing I do know is that I am a much improved person, and no matter what happens, I will thrive and survive!!! There is a very lucky woman out there for me. Maybe it's my wife... maybe somebody even better. But I know that somebody's gonna hit the jackpot with this DBer!!
It is very important to think of DBing as a self-improvement program. That's really all it is. Focus on yourself, and the rest of the stuff just happens. It's out of your control anyway, so why bother with it?
