No, your not. Your not pushing her, just stating your feelings and letting her know where your at right now. I think its something you have to do at this point, and your not dropping a "bomb" like you say, I think the letter is extremely supportive and loving so I would say it was more like a "love" letter with other feelings attached.
Your not crazy, your just getting anxious.. totally understandable... because the unknown is always scary.
hang in there. You'll be ok..be well
~Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Thanks “guys”. I am getting nervus but I am going to do this. Today is busy I need to re wire my lights on the jeep. I will be picking up the tickets for the “afternoon date”. My Wife is going out on a “over night girls night out”. (Yes I am NOT going to think about it). My son and I are going to go play pool tonight having a “guy’s night out”.
One more day and I am back at work.
EVERYONE THINK POSITIVE FOR ME
Manuel
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I have been thinking of you today too, husband. I think we all know what "bombs" are, and your letter doesn't contain one. It doesn't even put pressure on her to make any type of choice, its a statement, something you have to say.
I rewired the jeep MORE POWER yea... W and I went to the “taste of Petaluma” Event. Weather was good, Food was great. I had a really good time. I think the W did also. W Said Our son would really like this and next year we should bring him. The only thing that was missing was that I REALLY wanted to hold her hand. It felt so right, but I did not When we got home. W got things ready for her “Girls night out over night er” I was working on the jeep and she came out side to tell me about some food she wanted to take and how the store didn’t have it. I saw she took out some movie slides from before we got married to take with her. I told her I would like to see them some time. She just said “they are from a longtime ago” When W left she said she would rather stay home and work on her office. Son and I went to play pool. (I kicked his butt). I then let him play some video games and then we went for burgers and now we are home.
I added a line to my letter stating:
Saturday I had such a great time with you. I wanted so much to walk with you holding your hand but I didn’t
That’s it for now Son, I and the dog are here by ourselves tonight
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
It was a good day. 1 more day "Vacation" then I am back to work. Hope you had a good day today. Sorry for losing it the other day. Thanks for listening to my wining. I am nervous but I know it needs to me done.
Manuel
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
