No, your not. Your not pushing her, just stating your feelings and letting her know where your at right now. I think its something you have to do at this point, and your not dropping a "bomb" like you say, I think the letter is extremely supportive and loving so I would say it was more like a "love" letter with other feelings attached.
Your not crazy, your just getting anxious.. totally understandable... because the unknown is always scary.
hang in there. You'll be ok..be well
~Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
