I would like to add that I also dread the idea of going out and dating. I get asked out now and then and it should feed my ego but it does not. My heart still says I am married even though my ring is off my finger. I also am insecure about all the idiosyncracies one aquires when they are married. OK, you know leaving your bra on the towel bar, putting a tissue on an open soda can for your spouse, all those things you get to do because your spouse is supposed to love your quirks. Yeah, those things have to get swept away when you date someone new, right? There are a lot of damaged goods out there. It is true. But we all kind of are damaged goods but with a soul and experience, so stay positive.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."