Hooray! I feel so hopeful and excited about the future of my marriage!

Can I just bask in this for a while, before the cruel reality of being disappointed or being betrayed hits me again?

I am really feeling huge amounts of success on the eve of my H moving back in. He has been saying that he is excited to return.

My house is ripped apart as I am organizing things for his stuff to start arriving tomorrow. We will be sleeping in the same bed together, the first time in six months, tomorrow!

His job hunt is going well and I am truly praying that he finds a job that he can have satisfaction doing. I am actually hoping that he gets out of the mortgage industry entirely. Too many bad memories and associations with that kind of work.

Hooray! My family looks like it is going to stay together! I am on top of the world!
The Girl


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 11 yrs (7th year was HELL)
3 daughters
Survived Affair, 6 month separation
Rebuilt marriage
Currently stuck