And of course I understand more than many how you feel about living and working in the same place as H, with everyone knowing your business...but even that isn't the part of your post that is so striking to me.
Originally Posted By: always_14
I am done letting this whole thing stop my life, and it's nobody's fault but mine. I want to move forward and put the whole D resolution on the back burner of life, the bottom of the pole. It deserves as much time and energy as it's worth in life - very little. I will move forward now, and other things will sort themselves out.
How wonderful to have reached this place of detachment and acceptance, and this sense of priority. It is very inspiring indeed.