A big reality check hit my H when he got a view of the child support and maintenance. Especially maintenance because it will last 10-15 years because we were married so long.
Reality s l o w l y sinks in.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
