Exactly! It is so hard to talk normally when all you want to do is scream "Stop all this craziness, you imbecile!" sigh
I noticed that my H is a acting As If with me too. All this acting, then he calls OW and stabs me in the back... again. I will say that the more I do it, the easier it is. You start to really detach. I was really nervous before H got here, but then I just did what I had decided to do -- not let him bait me. I guess it helped that he was doing the same and trying to be pleasant.
Morgan, you always amaze me because, although you get PO'd at times, you are always able to say enough is enough. Then you get on with your day, determined to be positive. I wish I could do that. I feel like I dwell on all the negative all the time.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9