Yup yup and yup. Thanks for the perspectives.

He was reporting to her. I guess she feels threatened, but I feel like they are conspiring against me. He said, "YOU don't have to do anything." So what is HE going to do? Plus the web cam. He mentioned he was bringing it so I could send him more pics of the kids, but he didn't give me the rundown on how to use it. I'm tech challenged and he knows it (but I'm getting better). Can he use this thing to spy on me? Also, how do I check to make sure he didn't put some spy program in my PC to check on what I'm up to? Do we have any PC nerds around here?

Are you ready for the cherry on top of the above sundae? He sent me a TM this afternoon "Thanks again." Wth? He doesn't know whether he's coming or going. Sad. She keeps him from his kids, and he lets her. His loss. You know what? I feel fine. I thought hearing the ILY's and everything would hurt, but it was just confirmation for me. I'm just worried about what they are up to. It seems like this visit was a ploy to dig up some dirt.

I feel this confirms my suspicians on the ID or OW. He didn't say, there is a pic of M. He just said there was a pic, and she freaked, I guess. It's off the school website, it's open to the public. I didn't take a pic of her getting out of the shower or anything. Geeeeeezzz. She's the one lying, sneaking and cheating with a married man.

I'm getting off my own thread and going to visit everyone else for a while.

Last edited by nephartiti; 09/29/07 01:13 AM.

Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9