K! Neph, Although I cannot see the Piecing happening for me at this point. The only way I truly belive there can be any Piecing is if we moved out of state. I actually read that on a different forum maybe, Marriage Builders. My mom says once a cheater always a cheater but I truly think my H just went plum loco temporarily and I do not belive he is a serial cheater like my Dad. But who knows? he is pretty addicted to his affair rightnow and it has given him confidence to go after more women.
So the first miracle that would have to occur would be for my H to clear from his MLC. The second miracle would be for his affair to die a natural death. The third miracle would be for me to actually regain trust and attraction and forgive, for him too. The last would be to deal with the chaos of our lives which have been completely entangled by how close our families and friends and neighbors are. This closeness has been wonderful for me but it has been alienating for him. No one is on his side but OW.
The Other Woman article stated something to the affect that she feels more important because she offers comfort to someone that no one else respects. great. As if the world hates a cheater and homewrecker except their own partner in crime.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."