H wants D

[forward]

Go up meaning that he may become more confident in himself.

In my sitch, we felt that H needed to feel more equal to have R w/me. May have felt inferior and we needed to relate as equals in order to see me as a person. OW may begin to appear as weak and childish as I believe she is.

H's relationship with OW still is going strong, though. Wondering how long this will go on.

Child support is likely to be much more than H imagines. He needs a reality check there.