Breton - I'm sorry - I don't understand - DB C also said that he may go up now? What does this mean? Go up out of the tunnel?
I can't even imagine my girls meeting this OW. This will not go over well, especially with my older D. Your D is young enough, however, that she won't remember this. Hopefully, in time, the OW will be out of the picture.....
Maybe your D is just what the little OW needs to see...the realities of a family....