No, H is going to have diapers and food on the floor and all that at his place now. I don't think there is much that he can send back with me--certainly not the mess I did have--so that is groovy. It may be easier for him (and the part that really makes my heart hurt is that OW may watch D1.5), but I also like that D1.5 is intruding on the artsy love nest.
My next step is going to be to run a state worksheet that clearly shows CS obligations for him. He needs to get out of his imaginary fantasy world and start living in reality.
Was mad last night when he opened his bank statement and credit card statement here. Oh well, so not my problem.
W8, we are technically doing mediation so we can try to negotiate some of these issues. H has said he wants divorce; I want LS so we can solidify some of the things we discussed.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D