Radical honesty stuff (jesus, your H sounds so much like HoneyPot's)...
K to H: "H, I would really like it, very, very, much, if you would be my lover, and during the day, when we have family/kid stuff to do, that you would be my friend. Husbands... suck.
I think you really need to get your hands on that Radical Honesty book. Look, you will bust my chops when I get out of line, and you do it in a very... soft, gentle way. I appreciate it, I do.... it's one of the thing **I** love most about you. If you came at me and said, "Corri, shut your mouth, you're acting like an azz," I doubt I would hear you so... profoundly. You tame a raging beast, kwis? You don't have a raging beast at home.
But... you are one of those gals that wants 'throw me on the bed and give me pirate sex' kinda gals, and subtle, I'm sorry, your 'subtle' just does not WORK.
Why in the world would you NOT want to step out of your comfort zone and TAKE CHARGE?
"Honey, I'm horny. And this (x, y, z) is what I want to do. Now." And then dive in. ESPECIALLY with the most amazing earth-shattering kiss you can bestow upon the man. And then... tease the HE!! out of him... and go get what you WANT.
It's not like you lack imagination.... puhleezzeeee....
Just 'temper' yourself based on his... response. You certainly don't want to plow ahead if he is uncomfortable... but if he isn't THERE yet, you don't have to back off completely... see it as a challenge....
