WOW. Just wow. I can't believe you set up a recorder. I wouldn't have ever thought of that, but I can tell you from the recorded calls OW's H (I refused to listen), I am glad I didn't. Much MUCH worse than those. How odd, its like he is reporting back to OW, what is that all about??? I hate to say (but it happened to me), H is probably painting a nasty picture of you to OW and he is feeding her all sorts of bull about you. I am so sorry. I would continue to act as if, don't question the computer snooping, but maybe put something to really make him question on there next time. ;\)

Hope you feel better, what a day for you. I wonder if he would have called if you hadn't sent the pictures? He's a fool, but aren't they all?