Sara, I have not been to Retrouvaille so you may be correct.
My concern, as was Frank's I believe, was that insisting on Retrouvaille right now may be rejected as being pressure and controlling. Lester just trying to get his way.
Plus Lester told his W: "I wish I knew how to help but I know you don't like therapists."
Success with MC things depend on two people. Both should want to go. I have read where people have left Retrouvaille early b/c it is intense and one partner only went to keep peace or to *show* they were trying.
But again I have not been, so enough said. Is there a screening process of some kind to let you know if it is right for you?
