I do get your point but Lil is right about me very honestly having tried the usual spousal tactics. Though you may well be right about me having to dominate 100% of the time if I want frequency although that would also mean getting shot down a good percentage of the time or sometimes having him be mad at me for my insensitivity.
Lil,
Yeah - he did call Picard a pu$$y. H has no trouble with talking like a typical Alpha guy and using words like that in public. You are really on it today. He loved Braveheart and he really resonates with the whole heroic avenger, one perfect love kind of theme deal too. I don't think I have seen that episode. Might have to check it out. We have several of the series on DVD and the rest on video.