Truly Piecing once and for all!

[Heartbroken]

OC,

I see OW 2-3 times a week at school (just from our vehicles) - he says he hasn't seen her at all so far. Her kids walk home after school to their Dad's so odds are he should not see her. I actually have him pick up my son across the street just to help him avoid ALL contact. (Cannot be to careful at this point). I have not asked him about any 'sightings' lately - so who knows if he has. She did move over to the otherside of town and unless she is getting her boys she really has no reason to be over by our side...thank GOD!!

My parents are in from WI this weekend - first time since last Xmas - we'll see how H handles them. He saw them memorial weekend for an hour or so - but I am sure their is some shame creeping in on him today...they are just glad we are still together and will support us no matter what. I hope they hold no grudges - my mom said she feels that our reconcilation is better than him leaving for good - she knows how hard it would be on our kids...

From what I have read here on the piecing board is that we LBS tend to bring up OP more than than our spouses which just gets them thinking about the OP - so I have really been avoiding dragging her into every conversation. I really don't need the details but what I do want is the way it ended...the how? and the why? He said a few weeks ago that he still could not talk about it....may need to get him drunk...loose lips.... LOL

Have a great weekend! HB