Thanks for responding! This has been an issue in our relationship for about 3 years now and I usually begin by telling him how it makes me feel insecure our inadequate and how I have less against porn than the fact that he engages in it without me or engages in deceit by covering his tracks. I know the covering is done because he doesn't want to deal with conflict, but why not just stop the behavior then? Thank you for the support...it's nice to have someone respond to me in that way.
