Oh it may not be relevant or not but to add to the story he is also married. I had a whole thread on whether or not to talk to his wife. I decided against it for now. Maybe in the future or maybe if she files but I don't what purpose it would serve now other than an ah haa got ya back type thing.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates