Mixed signals - catfan's continual saga part???

[Dom R]

she wants someone to bring joy into her daily life. She all but asked me to do just that and honestly right now I haven't a clue how to go about it without it coming across as pursuit. So I am all ears!

WOW! you lucky guy, you. I missed that post from you.


I would say,
Do things that you know make her happy.
Dont do it in a way, that says, "come back to me!!!"
In other words, try to make your efforts purely a gift, with no expectation of reciprocation, either from your perspective or hers.


Compare and contrast, short text messages:

a) "I'm thinking of you, the most wonderful woman in the world "

b) "have a wonderful day!"


At first glance, message a) is very complimentary and positive for her. However, it brings up that you are thinking romatically of her, and makes her think about what "the relationship" between you both is. So, it ends up being "pressure" for her.

message b, is just wishing her well, with no strings attached

So, I guess she's asking you for attention, without obligation.
not sure what other things you can do, but I think that ight be helpful in deciding yes/no on ideas.
(If you think of good stuff... let me know too! i could use em as well )