Sort of is the answer on the housing front. Very conflicted in my head about this move and talked thru it yesterday w/ C. I am going to write out my thoughts on this concept and maybe email or give it to W. It will be completely nuetral.
As usual, I am taking the advice of an expert. I had a lawyer once tell me I was his toughest client in 20+ yrs of practice (no it was not Nomo!) because I critiqued every word of his letters and tried to act like a lawyer and that I was too anal. Not sure if that was a compliment or not! So he said, stop trying to do EVERYTHING and start taking advice of experts!!! Anyway, the expert, C in this case said my W sounded like someone who needed to process info and may do it better when she can sit and read it, re-read it etc. (this is what she did to me when telling me about the S, she handed me a note). I think she is right, which is why I am going to write it down.
In a nutshell, this may be a way to get her to move off center in that I will be talking about living arrangements in a very non-threatening way i.e. that my current arrangements are unacceptable to me and maybe at the same time ask if she would be open to going to see my C or a nuetral one again, specifying that any meeting can be the last.
Also, she beat me up for me getting upset w/ my W the night she came home from her night out and pouty CVA did not like the way she stood there waiting for me to leave. All after she called me that morning to clear her going out that night even though she did not have to. I took it like a man and said "thanks for pointing that out C!"
What do you guys/girls think?
Signed Always open to suggestion and a little naughty talk!
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
