Your encouragement is what I am needing at the moment. I am not looking for the pat on the back or that "Yea you did it." I made the decison last Sept, that I love WAH-MLCer (prior seperation OW) & that I could move past his recent A & I would work on the M.
Sadly, he hasn't grown up and seems stuck in the MLC tunnel.
No, he will not admit to being an alcholic and is not seeking help..."there is nothing wrong with him, it's all me."
MIL reiterates that my WAH-MLCer is sick, just like his Father was (deceased for 11yrs)
Nothing was said in true anger this morning, but there was some emotion behind things here and there. I hope what bits I have said will sink in, but who knows.
Hardest part is keep the As If everything is normal for child.
It is nice to know there others out there who have been in a similiar situation and can provide input.
Thank you!
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
