My wife wants out !!

[dadtotwo]

I am angry with myself for being so weak with her. I want to do the right thing for her and my kids because of this mess. I feel that if I give her a hard time that I will just push her further away. She is so bitter and resentful that she jumps at the first chance to get mad at me. It really makes me angry that she wants to demonize me because her OM is so "perfect" in her eyes.

I must confess that if this was a separation with no OM involved, I would work until my hands bled to make them comfortable. Regardless of what happened to get us here, I loathe her for going outside our M and making this new R out to be her ticket to happiness.