im new here...but not to MLC..h came home in July.

OW...sorta wanna know but scared of the pain i will feel to know all the details. sometime i just want to know ...why did you lie....what made you file?

i know it was a full blown A....they lived together from last oct right until he left. do i want to ask if he loved her? Sometimes. tho the fear of the answer scares me.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest