Husband, Only you know when the time is right, and I wanted to make sure you were. I believe you are ready. In Dr. Dobson's book "Love Must Be Tough" he talks about when you send the letter to be prepared that it could possibly end your marriage. He says you need to be at a point that you will be able to handle the outcome either way.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
