When this thing first started. I got a call at work. Keep in mind I found the pictures, I had my crying and begging episode. And I get a phone call at work from the school that my son was in the principal’s office and the police were called. I work in the next town about 30 miles away. I drove to the school and met W there. My son threatened to kill someone. Now he is 10. He plays these stupid video games and I know he didn't realize what he was saying. But as you know the schools can't take any chances now days. I volunteer at the school. (Was editor of the school newspaper) so the principal knows me and I am a reserve Police officer at the police department so the officer knows me. We get it all straightened out my son wrote a letter of apology to the girl. But what I was getting to is that first my W asked why I left work she could have handled it. I told her noting can keep me away from my family if they need me and he did. Then something was said I don't remember what but I said something about it not being the right time. My W's response was "there is no right time. If this is not the time then when will be the right time?"
Some thing will always come up. I could say "well maybe I should wait until after her b-day (Oct 7th). Or maybe I should wait until after she gets a job. Or wait until my son is out of school for the summer. Or after my VEGAS vacation. There will always be something. Yes I am confused, angry, hurt, betrayed. I don't have any idea how to tell everyone if it comes to that.
Husband
Last edited by husband; 09/28/0702:12 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know