I don't understand the relevance of Single Again posting Dutchman's last post to you - only because I don't think you are ready to learn from it. Single wants to help you. If you look at the time he has been registered, and the number of posts he makes, he obviously discriminates about who he posts to. You are lucky that he is posting to you - I just don't know how receptive you are to his advice at the moment.
Saffie, I am at a loss as to what it will take to inspire this guy. I was cryptic with the post. We are failing to stimulate thought in Going. I posted the Dutchman because I wanted Going to get a glimpse of a man that had his back up against the wall. A true view of despair. It takes a few reads for it to sink in. I can't read it without crying. Those final words from the Dutchman changed me. I felt ashamed at the time when I read them. I decided I was no longer a victim that day. Even though things hadn't gone my way I still have it pretty damn good.
