Azhira,

Sounds like alot of his insecurities may be too do with teh abuse he suffered as a child. He maybe never learnt to love and reassure? It's learnt behaviour. Sounds like you know him really well and are playing his game by massaging his ego. Are you ok with the arrangements? Sounds as if you are and you can look into the future with time frame. I think it all sounds really positive for you, you are taking the right cautious baby steps.

Well done.

XD


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07