It's early and I got very little sleep last night. H kept me on the phone for several hours while he drove half-way across the country to get home last night.
As I told IMP in one of my posts, words have to be backed up with action for me to believe, so I'm taking everything H said with a grain of salt. Anyway, in a nutshell, here is what he said:
He is kicking the OW out of his house when he gets home. He said he couldn't put it off another day.
He and OW have been constantly fighing for the past two weeks (ever since our divorce).
He wants a full-grown, level-headed WOMAN .. not a young, stupid kid.
He doesn't trust her .. especially with men.
She doesn't love him like I loved him.
He has been slipping and calling her "Val" a lot lately.
He is going to change the locks on his house today.
He wants to be by himself so that he can think about everythinig that has happened the past two years.
He referred to the past two years as a "journey" (this surprised me).
He opened up and leveled with me about his finances.
Anyway, so much was said in our 4 hour conversation. These are just highlights that I remember.
Personally I think he will have a tougher time getting rid of OW than he thinks. Glynn Close's character in Fatal Attraction has nothing on this girl.
Actions speak louder than words, so we'll see what this weekend brings.
I got about 2 hours sleep last night and not operating on all cylinders this morning. I'm off to bed.
