Dom, I fully accept my share of our problems. I have read up on relationships and sexual inhibitions, and am seeing a C. I know I had my part in our problems. But it takes two. And, I have apologized to my H for them. I accept responsibility for my part of our problems -- fully -- completely.
Did I give the impression that I felt none of this was my fault? I know an affair signals a problem in the marriage. I know/knew we had problems.
But again it takes two. Unless you have lived with the type of criticism I lived with, you don't know what it was like. And criticizing is not constructive communication. It's disrespect.
