new here and really worried

[littlebitlost]

Forrest:

Yes I think he was the WAS in the relationship. Now and then. You have to lead the way. You will have to be the leader in your own stitch. You effected the change.

Thanks for the explanation forrest...and I guess I may have to lead the way a bit as well as display a great deal of patience, which he did do for me as well (for about a year)