I can see what you're saying. It's just so hard to put into practice. People who she's told about our break up are coming to me saying that she is telling them we should have been over a year ago, and that trouble started 4 years ago (I swear it isn't true, though I believe she believes it). She's saying that she "twisted the rules a bit" to be with the OP, but regrets nothing. She's even joking about it!! In anyone's experience, has your spouse spoken about you and your relationship like this to others? How bad is this that she's saying things like this? Or is this a part of the script too. Has anyone's spouse come back after having said these kinds of things?
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
