For my anniversary weekend, I went away to LI to visit my friend from college. She had to work during the day, but we hung out at night. It was Memorial Day weekend; H went "away," too, and the kids stayed with their grandparents. I was completely dark, and it was really hard that night (it was the same weird weather as the night we met--heat lightning flashing all over the sky like fireworks).
I didn't want to be around the kids that day, because I thought it would be way too emotional.
