All, thanks for the positive thoughts. She hasn't been "neglecting" the kids, but she has been much less attentive to them, and they have been complaining about it for two years. I feel guilty when I try to do something for myself, even though my therapist says it's a good idea, as I feel the kids are more neglected as I'm not there for them. I know that is pretty lame, but they don't need to suffer because of her. They're great kids!
