Well I did it. I made it through the swap and he never once mentioned Florida or the R. I just went with the flow and chatted with him a bit. He looked really tired but he stayed about 45 minutes with S and I. We did not talk about anything too important just stupid little things like always. He still looks at me like he expects me to mention R which I do not. Going on 4 weeks now. YEAH for me!!! I did do some minor physical contact but not much. I patted his arm twice and I touched his hair. He did not cringe etc so that was good.
He was very nice and he told me he had gotten the stuff to change the oil in my car. He had not mentioned it since last week so I did not think he was going to do it. I asked him how much I owe him and he said not to worry abuot it but I told him to take it out of what he gives me this week. It should only be about $20 or less since that is what the local garage charges $18.99. I never paid him before but we shall see if he deducts the money or not. I will not mention it again though either way.
He did not mention when he would do it and someone dropped a car off last night to be worked on. He had told me he was doing a car today and that he would give me half of the money since he was using the garage etc.
So last night he never asked what S and I were doing this weekend or mentioned wanting to see S before we leave for Florida. He just takes it for granted that we will be here this weekend and he can drop by when he wants to. How do I handle this? I understand that he would want to see S if he comes over but it irritates me that he does not ask when we will be home. If he does not see him this weekend then he will not see him for 2 weeks. How should I handle this weekend? We will be packing etc and we have a couple of things planned but should I make us some other ones so maybe he realizes that we are not here for when he is lonely etc. It upsets me that on weekends he does not seem to want to see our S and does not make an effort to or asks what we are doing. He just drops by when he feels like it etc. Any ideas.
Another thought I am having is that maybe he has made up his mind and just does not want to tell me befoe my trip to Florida. Could I come home to devastating news? That is what I am worried about right now. I sent his two replys to my MC and she says not to worry and have a good time. She said that she did not think he would say yes to going since it would be a whole week of us together acting as if everything is OK and that would be too tough and we would end up in huge R talk with no place to go and our S there. So maybe it is good that he is not going however what will I come home to????
