Now I can understand your style and where you are coming from, a lot of what you told me makes more sense now. I don't think I can offer you any advice at the moment cos you already know what you need to do. You have the tools in your box so use them.
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing