What you need more than anything right now is patience. Yes, she has found some new heart-throb and whether it is just kissing or if it is more, you need to let it run it's course.
The good thing is that about 80% of these affairs just burn themselves out in 6 months or so. There are 2 kinds of love, the hot bright flame, like when paper catches fire, that burns with great intensity and fast, and a slow smoldering fire.
Affairs are the first kind of white, hot love. They catch fire suddenly, and they spend themselves fairly quickly too. Then there is married love, which burns slowly, sometimes the embers seem to be out. But if you stir the fire, you can see there are still some hot coals. That is how your love is.
You need to wait it out. The new love will burn brightly for a while, but then reality will set in, and it won't be so perfect. Over time, if you are taking care of yourself, exercising, keeping a happy disposition, you will start to look better to her. then you can look for a turn around. It takes a long time. That's why you have to stop focusing on her, and instead work on making yourself the best person you can be.
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