You are anything but rude. You have a deep empathy for others. Martydom is right. I think it does go along with that Stage of Seeking Approval. Now I see that is why my H has been lying to others about the amount of money he gives me.
Re: Suffering with OW. Yep, my H says that too. Hs R with OW is a nightmare and makes him unhappy but it is something he felt he needed. So emo.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."