I told him I was riding with a friend, but he was welcome to ride with us.
Next time let him invite himself, or invite you.
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"No, I was planning on going." He said, "I'll talk to you tomorrow afternoon." I said,"Do you want to call me, or do you want me to call you?" He told me to call him.
He needs to be the one calling you. When he said he'd talk to you tomorrow afternoon, leave it at that. Or say, I'll expect your call.
Also in general, don't be available for all his calls or suggested activities. Your moving on right? He needs to feel like you won't jump back in when he contacts you.
Love you hun...but you are responsing a bit too eagerly to his minor displays of attention.