It is kinda what I pointed out in the beginning of your post. You got seperated. You started your ride. He was still standing in line. All the issues you thought you were leaving behind are still right there when you get back. He is still standing in line. I like the metaphores (Spelling) in life.
Yes I think he was the WAS in the relationship. Now and then. You have to lead the way. You will have to be the leader in your own stitch. You effected the change.
I once read..
A woman marries a man expecting he will change. And he does not.
A man marries a woman expecting she will not change. And she does.
That says alot.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
