Hi, toh. Keep working. I know it is not easy. You will find your way to where you want to be, if you are determined to. You just have to keep at it. Make sure you're defining your goals. Have you already done that, and I missed it?
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Not to see him or to "distance" feels so wrong. So how do I do the "distancing" thing?
This stuck out for me. Just want to make sure you know that distancing and detaching are not the same. Sometimes we need to distance, for ourselves and/or for our spouses... but detaching (lovingly, of course) is something to strive for all the time. Also, it does not always feel comfortable to do either of them.
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
