Breton - sorry it has been so long since I have posted...you've read my thread - I hope you understand....
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I'm right there with you on the OW thing with the IL's. My IL's have taken her right in as if she is just naturally supposed to be there. As if what their son is doing with her, living with her while still married to me, is completely normal and OK in their eye. MIL has gone out to lunch with just her and OW and OW ate Easter dinner at their house.
I really don't know that I expected anything different, but for them to just act as if 15 years with their son meant so little that I could be shoved out so quickly hurts. THey are nice to me and have told me if I need absolutely anything that I can call them anytime and I think they sincerely mean it, but I won't. Not after how they've taken OW in to their home and are treating her the same as they treated me when what she's doing wtih their son is so obviously wrong. I just won't.
butterflymom - I will be just crushed if this happens to me...and it may. How can you accept this behavior from your child? I don't get this...
Breton - the comparison that the DB C gave you was perfect...I hadn't thought of it that way but it does seem so true. Which coach did you speak with?
I may have missed something in your past posts or not remembering something, but H is agreeing to MC and there is an OW? Is that unusual?
I like that your D is going to his place a couple of times a week. Although if you are really lucky like me, the mess just comes home in a suitcase (dirty laundry). But, yeah - he should have to stock up for her and care for her and be responsible for her......
I wishing you strength and patience in your decision to stand for your M. I think it takes courage and I admire you for that!
