Lester,

You upset me so much with that I let work get in the way of going to Retrouvaille comment that I went and hit MC on the head with a 2x4 over it. What?!!! You have to make you marriage a priority. That's why you are in this mess.

You need to book a weekend in October somewhere. Fly to that city if necessary. You can wait and do the Post sessions in your local area later. But get the weekend under your belt. They will teach you and your wife wonderful communication skills. You get that going and everything else falls into place.

It's like a Nike commercial -- just do it.