Oh yeah, remember we are in Stage 3 and Stage 4 is Seeking Approval? Morgan is right. But it is also good to reward any good goals achieved like good communication. Light talks. Rebuilding trust. Fun and safe family home, etc. Correct me if I am wrong but what is your basis for evidence of an affair? I know you mentioned H is living with an OW and her boyfriend and he claims they are just friends. Has he admitted to EA or PA or did you discover that somehow? I feel like I missed something. It does sound like an affair I just am not sure how you actually found out. I was never truly positive until he actually admitted he "cheated".
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
